I find it really amusing and insulting that you seem to know me so much better than myself. You seem to try and portray that I am all about myself and noone else. If an unbias eye reads our conversation, I wonder how wouldn't that apply to you. What I meant by "cant it be about us" is that why cant we both be equally good (whatever that means) and equally bad (whatever that means). Why can't we be totally different and still be ok to be able to exist as a separate entity. Thats what I meant.