That’s not unusual to get bored in a relationship especially if you’ve been with that person for 5 long years! You can’t expect the relationship to be great all the time u know, no matter how great a match you guys make. May be you should go on a vacation without her for a few days and see if you miss her at all. You’re saying that ever since you guys moved in together, you’re kinda not liking it as much (as you had expected or…?). Haha…why am I not surprised here? LOL. Dude, if you don’t think its gonna work out, you gotta let her know. She’ll probably scream at ya, throw stuff at ya, and may be even call the police. But hey, its better than living with that guilt inside you all your life. Liberate yourself and her too. Marriage is not a bacha bachhi ko khel u know. If you wanna marry someone, u better well be damn sure that u wanna marry that person. After all, you’ll be spending your whole life with that person. What the hell u been thinking? Why’d u wait so long?