we used to meet once in a semester. we had spend some quality time together. we never felt any kind of uneasyness during our stay together. she was the one who asked me to visit her parents for marriage. marriage was coming soon in couple of months. but suddenly, she did this to me. she is not a teen age girl either. she is matured girl. she met the other guy for only couple of times and he gave her some gifts which i think attaracted her. they went out, dinner, movies and all and they got attracted i guess. it is not clear at this point that the guy really loves her or just using her. she used to say taht she is guilty and she can not face me in her whole life. i had done so much for her that she can never face me. but suddenly she is getting very rude and says, its my life and i will do what i want to. you do what you wan tto. i am trying to convince her and every positve word of mine is taken in negative ways. if distnace was the issue, why she did not tell me earlier. why this long? why she showed all commitment and love and now betrayed me? when i ask her this question, she does nt have answer. its killing me. my whole career is going down. i can not focus in anything. i have not told this thing to my parents, they will go crazy if they knew it. her parents are already suffering big shock, where as she does nt seem to care anyone. how can she betray a guy whom she had long relationship with a guy whom she met just 3-4 times. i do not understand this. can we trust people in this world??