GRK Dude, You have some problem man. You need some councelling. FIVE YEARS is a long time. You just need to be frank with her and resolve any unresolved matter. If she is very nice to you, why are you not happy with her? What's the problem? It's will be pure betraying if you leave her along at this point of time, living with her for FIVE YEARS. I am sure she will be hurt badly and her tears will never let you live happily. Open your eyes and work on the relationship. It's hard to find true love these days. And Mary gal, Don't be so biased in your opinion. I won't say guys have no flows. But it's kinda unfair to say ALL GUYS. If you ask me, I would say (few but not all) GALS have the same problem as well. They also want to go around and get new one the every other day.