If someone wants just to fool around (and just for fun) I believe having an affair (or affairs) with a married girl is the safest bet (from a startegic point of view) for many reasons. However the guys who are doing this should always refrain from actually falling in love (having an affair and actually fallling in love are two different things). # You have a very low liability. # You do not have (a liability) to promise a committment for a long term relationship. # You do not necessarily have to please her (after all she is a bonus prize). # She has no room to argument even if you cheat her & dump her (because she already cheated her husband by having affair with you so she should not expect you to remain with her and aslo be faithful to her). # Even if you dump her she still has the option to go back to her husband. # Of course there is a greatly mysterious thrill and excitement in doing something that is regarded socially and morally wrong. # By the way..affairs do happen when you are single..you are not the one who is married. It is a burden of married girl to think about if affair is all right or not. ..you dont have to bcuz you are still single. Boy!! I had a really great time ...and I have no problem having such thrills more often. I simply dont wanna fall in love with a married love but I have no problem whatsoever in having affairs with married girls.