Why do people constantly fall for those that r "occupied"? isn't the label "married" a big turn off in the first place? don't let this kinda thing foster.u might say"she loves me too".i think she's a cheater if she says so. we should encourage good things but this kinda thing ,guys "stop it". it's hard to control feelings but we should also use our brain rather than heart in these cases. what if you were the husband who doted on your wife but she was into someone else?how'd u feel? put yourself in other's shoes b4 jumping into something like this. Girl Interrupted dear, do you have any suggestions for him? Barmahasay pal, hope you won't take the wrong step.