Mansion, the thing u said "guys r more commmitted towards a relationship than a girl" made me roll with laughter. guys r aggressive in the beginning of the relationship,or shud i say when they're initiating the relationship.when they get the girl's atttention and love, they start searching for a new bird. let me also not make this sort of generalisation. i'll say "good guys seen to b in the hand of wrong girls and vice versa". Gorkhalikanchhi, if we don't marry the one we love then what r we supposed to do?leave him and marry someone else? why love him in the first place if we were to leave him?