I think I will have to retract every single thing I have said. In fact I think you guys are right: why should every army major get a servant for free? Please call home you RNA brats and ask your parents/relatives to get rid of the free servant/servants your parents get! And, while you are on the phone, tell your parents to not plan for your weddings and spend outrageous amounts to impress the neighbours, the friends and the rest of the families. Tell them that however they have earned their money is not going to matter. We are all under scrutiny. If you are girls/women who are planning your weddings or plan to get married in the future, remember your parents if most, do not make more than 40,000/50,000(IF EARNED RESPECTFULLY AND IN A GOVT SETTING) and therefore DO NOT MAKE OUTRAGEOUS demands on them. Tell them to ghati hereyra haad nilnu!!! And that comment on how businessmen should be justified in spending huge amounts on anything - be that on buying govt officials or weddings - that is BS - I hope their money is hard-earned. And while I'm at it, if your father is a hard-working individual who made his fortune by working at govt jobs, on private contracts or if your father is affiliated with any INGO that pays well, be forewarned as the costs of YOUR WEDDINGS too will be under scrutiny. Tell your parents they need not borrow to buy you that expensive dhoti lenga choli, that they need not borrow to send you on shopping sprees to Delhi for the wedding, that you do not need 20 million sarees, tell them that their blessings are enough!! And guys, you do not need that expensive suit in that dusty city nor the fake rolex watch to impress your in-laws...nor the car - NOTHING. Yes do that and then lets argue about expensive weddings! AMEN