dont try to change ppl. just enjoy the show. Dont offer them help until they will ask for it. First dont be judgmental and learn to accept the ppl. you cant change ppl place and things there is one person who can change is oneself.............so leave them on time and sitution. Even u try nothing gonna happen. We all need hiting bottom to change so dont worry......... just be real face the reality think of yourself.................this is the reason why ppl walk around with unecessary tension......dont kill your present..once u start to demand and seek pleasure then u loose your present............live as fullest. dont loose smile from your face