Mansion - whoever your girl is - she should read it. No woman should be a fool to give away a man who thinks like you do. Lonely Gurl- I second on what you said above. You give someone your best, and somehow your best isnt enough. Mansion - trying hard ta ho. When should one give up? One cannot keep trying till the heart suffers so much, your thoughts are so negative that you arent yourself anymore. I feel sometimes its best to drop the matter- dust your hand- and move on. SERIOUSLY...it hurts you, ofcourse, but you get over it. Years of painful solitude towards a healing heart is better than years of painful love. :)