lonely gal what i was doing was to encourage u. If we learn to take humilation as positive in life then u go far ahead than u think. Ppl get via humilation spritiual awakeing. Why do buddist monk go around or buddha asked him for begging? if u think it is humilation. Today, i try to practise humilation wherever i can. It helps to melt down your ego. Well see r laughing on that incident today but it does carries a message that think,think and think before you act on something. U should never try to answer what u dont know? Thats what i was telling my brother lately? Today, i am in position to accept what i dont know? i accept it easily and dont try to make out. I know when i throw out , it is easy for me. i may pretend that i know that stuff but later it becomes worst and worst. So i certainly see message on your posting. i should not be saying so much well today i need to workout on my over confidence, it is sign of relapse. I need not to be counseling in here. I need a help uhi recovering adddict moneyminded one is more than enough, thousand is never enough