To let your voice heard among mediocre mentality seems rather stupid but at times cannot overlook such issues. Wonder if the question put up is pun intended or put up on a serious note! If brought up for mere humor, eligible for standing comic. Else, might take up in such a situation where the querry might need to be reconsidered. It doesn't surprise me when women are dragged into the dramatic arena. But judging the entire community on your personal view doesn't seem to be fair. Above all, not necessarily others have to have the same opinion as you do. If someone doesn't find any likeable characteristics, not necessarily others find the same. "Change" I think is human's nature and that's what they have been doing for eons. "Change" either for good or bad is your personal attribute and depends on how you view it.