first of all, no where have i mentioned that its my problem, and even if it was mine, i wouldnt expect to get the answers there, nor am i looking for any, its just a general situation that ppl go thur, i just wanted to initiate and know peoples views, and as far as you're concerned, its up to you, to give your opinion or not..regardless of if anyone is asking or not....at the least, you need to learn to respect others views.