i can take one s tand and defend one side, but i can also take one stand and completely defend another side. like i said, its hard to come to conclusion when u r aware of both sides. we have a sticky situatin. there is no black and white. personally i mgiht tend to feel stronger about one side or cause or issue. i am saying i am not going to adamant about it and declare that i am right and everyone else is wrong. yes i do have a stand but i know i am wrong when i take that stand if i look at it from antoher perspective....u see what i am saying??? if not, i don't want to explain anymore.