Mr. Lonely - :P uffff!! :) i don't think i can eat a lot of momo in the summer ke! :P (it's a joke ke, hope you got it!) (wink,wink) :P :P rum - you are only 19 and you wanna get married??? that's not cool ke!!! ufffff!!! i have a perfect solution for you, here's what i suggest you do: don't marry her, but just wait and see how your mind changes ke, cause i gurantee you that it will, when you're like 25 and if you still want to marry then you probably really do need to marry her and only her but by then you'll probably have moved on(hopefully). So, right now don't do anything ke, she's your gf then just leave it to gf ni!!! that way you parents are happy for now and so are you!!! and also she's in 9th grade let me say that again 9th grade!!!!!!!!!! the answer is NO and i mean NO!!! you would be ruining her life if you marry her now ke, do you want to do this?? of course NOT!!! so wait for like 5 or 6 years, and see if you guy's are still together or not and then start worrying about this intercast marriage thing then ke, NOT now!! uffffffff!!! Dude, live your life while you can ni, you are only 19! :) Enjoy!!!! (wink,wink)