I am sorry to diguise you about two other things my parents included- 1.Social and economic Status of the gal's family..her grandfathers didn't have good reputation(not living anymore) 2. And the gal is 2 yrs younger(17) than me (19) ... also she is just now in 9th grade....I also feel ashamed to say that. They didn't directly pointed out that it is due to caste but it is explicit that they are doing this coz of caste, they point out caste in third mixing with upper two reasons... And they are trying to bribe me with exaples of other gorgious gals they are thinking for me.......... They may be good looking than my gal but I don't love them,..... coz I feel really sorry(PITY) for my gal.