azwnty i kind of understand where all this anger is coming from. and i feel sympathetic towards the mother as well. and its true you do have a right to express ur opinion. tara for you and for everybody, not just in this case but countless toher times in sajha, its about drawing the line between having a difference of opinions and being offensive..... felicty, its not that we suck or antyhing. we are not just trained to use our common sense or be sensitive towards other peoples. there are somethings that are seriously wrong in our value system.