purush, it really depends on what you are trying to get out of this date. if you dont' know whehter you want to move forward in a relationship with this girl, then don't just try anything yet and definetly don't try hard to impress. go with the flow. two things to keep in mind: maintain ur distance in the first date at least and show your interests in HER. if you are only looking for a night-stand or so, ladainian21, he seems to be the expert.