I have seen middle class family "share" hard liquor with their teenage son. When confronted the father told me "अमेरिका कहा बाट कहां पुगी सक्यो अब जति सक्यो चाडो हामि हाम्रो पुरानो प्रथा बाट पर हट्नु पर्छ र धेरै पिउनु पर्छ।" I did not feel any reasoning will do any good here and I left, disgusted.