Well, I do not mean to say 'it's not good to work in Restaurants, or Take away' or in Motel. As you mentioned, like the Brother you are talking about would have done far better than what's he doing now if he had good information and Knowledge ... the way life goes in West. Finally, he had to struggle himself to understand/respcet for works, that would be the reason he could not achive as he would achieve lots more form his skills and ability .............