it;s seems normal to me .white women can b never a choice for south asians boy.Because, south asians boy are never in the primary list of these white gals .it is only when these girls can not find a white guy they go to the second alternative .. and then the last may b the south asian guys .. .So it;s like if we are not in their primary list we don;t need to care about the things they make us to feel they care.. Similarly is the case of the old white guy marrying the young south asian girls .. where the asian girl benefits is the citizenshi of USA which she is desiring ..So it;s just a transaction .. and someone wish to have a citizenship of USA or similar thing it is good to have a white gal otherwise it is of no use . to have a experience it;s both way the girl really start with the feeling of knowing how south asian guys ,,coz in her mind is always a handsome caucasian guy .. she accepts him thinking as a white guy .. This is how it is and nothing to b amazed i think ..