ok, thread kinda gettin out of hand, lolz....i respect your view of muslims but this thread is for everyone, irrespective of caste, religion blah blah...but seriously, would you marry because your deceased spouse would like you to be happy or because YOU YOURSELF would feel the need for a partner? im not saying marrying again or not marrying is a wrong thing. just opinions and generate some interesting ideas and ideology along the way......please post further...there have been few interesting ideas...