Arko sir, ya, you are serious in entering into relationship at this point. I would like to assure you that 99.9% of nepali girls are not ready whom you meet online to start a new life at this point especially in America. Because the ladies are here for Undergraudate ( 20 -24) of age. According to few observations I found they bark the slogan of Freedom. I don't know what they mean by that. On the other hand, the relationship you want to start needs Compromise. Compromise means you have to sacrifice some of you Freedom. Example - if you smoked, need to quit. Flirt with other ladies - need to stop. Was a drunker - need to stop. or even if you had the very best friend but of opposite sex, after marriage some people lose contact for ever with their best friend. There are lots of such minor issues involved. Now, are the ladies who fall in 99.9 % would be ready to compromise with the situation? Probability is minimal. You know better than anyone. The girl having same set of mind as you have is in need. There is probability of 0.1 % you may find your future wife in America (nep girls). Someone may approach, who knows right? It is evident there are few nepali Matrimonial sites which are of no use or misused by US (NEP KIDS). Sadly, there are INDIANS matrimonial sites which are productive. I have found 1-2 serious nepali families advertising such cases in Indian Reporter Paper & saadi.com. It is not a bad idea to sign up or advertise in such media that might full fill your need. what do you think? I know that is sad for a nepali to do so. But is there any alternative to achieve your goal? I always wish Sajha Metromonial could be used for good. Unfortunately this is not happening. We do spend time in kurakani but for what? Mostly Unproductive Talks. Let's hope time will bring some real thinking in such social matters among Nepali youngters. But hey ! an optimistic guy will get his way out? Just the matter of time, Arko Sir. Good Luck ! I know how you feel. I have covered the same paces that you have. A bright morning is waiting out there... with a smile in a sweet nepali girl's face...with same degree of thinking...a very sweet planning to spend life together...with lots of love and trust who understands the meaning of Compromise in Marriage Life...who is drown into the reality of life...who knows Freedom dwells inside the compromise...The day is near. -BD