KG4MVP you are so out of sync here. No one's talking about petty amounts of 10-20 bucks here and there. I am talking more like couple hundred or even up to thousands you are expected to send them say every 2-3 months... And when I am talking here in public forum about this sensitive issue, how'd you expect me to not understand the logic behind spending money in bar vs helping out parents with B.P machine! This is so totally out of logical argument here. Revival