hurray, Does it ever occur to you that people can get divorced of a parent could die. Now don't tell me 'if you're gonna get divorced, don't marry in the first place.' I think the person looking for nanny is taking resposibility by searching for a nepali nanny. I have seen a couple send their baby to nepal because it was so hard for them to support the baby here. Most of the parents take care of their kids. I can tell definately that you don't have a kid.