Nails act as if raising child is easy...............and this is USA not like Nepal where your parents will take care of the baby, until and unless your husband's job is perfect you can stay in leave otherwise there are lots of bills. who is gonna pay the bills. ..so what's the day care and nanny for? those are for the people who needs to work...of course all parents love baby...all people go through this situation.....and lets not point out who looks for nanny....