Zalim is right. Lots of white girls played with my heart when i was in college, but you see me nowhere posting crying messages. They cheated on me, they took my money, they robbed me emotionally, financially and mentally. Most white girls don't even look at the dark skin guys from Indian, Nepal,paki.... dating is very far away thing. See those guys could have married these white girls , make green card in 2 -3 years and dump them, but they didn't dothat.... people break up for different reasons all the time. Why blame the whole south asians for what few guys did with thier personal issues. Stupid woman. reading this thread gives me idea llike white girls are sati sabitri.. while it's the other way around,, you guys have noticed if you have slept with a woman here in the usa that the next day they act like they've never seen you before.. like they met on a bus and are seperating after some time.. they don't even have emotions ... or they are so flacky that they can not be considered for lost lasting relationships. they must have been after those guys for better life any way.. they must know that they have good majors in colleges and must have been after them for better future.. while they study some crappy major like anthropology or history seeking entry level position at McDonalds drive way after graduation.