good laugh when you’re with the lads but it won’t impress her . She might laugh but inside she’ll be eaten up with embarrassment . A lot of men think that girls are turned on by very macho men - but most girls think completely the OPPOSITE . Girls like their men to be sensitive . Don’t take this too far , girls want their men to act like men but try and mix being a man with being caring and sensitive . A heady cocktail that girls find irresistible ! If you find something ‘nice’ or ‘pretty’ or something upsets you - tell her . You’ll be surprised how much she warms to you . Especially if the something nice or pretty is about her!! Whilst girls obviously go for good looks and a decent body it comes surprisingly LOW on THEIR list of priorities . By itself it doesn’t turn them on like it does men . Ask a girl if she is turned on by these things , she will probably say yes but deep down a girl knows she can’t find any man a turn-on unless he CARES for her too. For this reason , if you are worried about your looks and body(and who isn’t?)-put your worry out of your mind and concentrate on the things given in this book that girls want . This is probably the hardest thing that you have to do in the entire book. HOW TO GET NOTICED IN A ROOM FULL OF GIRLS How to turn her head Now , most men judge a girl by how she looks . Is it the same for girls? The simple answer is no . Again , girls are a bit more complex than that! Before being really attracted to you they’ll weigh you up as a complete package , and not just take you on your looks . But girls are attracted to men who’ve made an effort . After all , she probably spent 3 hours getting ready for her night out! Here are some tricks that will help make sure SHE sees you before YOU see HER! What to Wear So just what sort of clothes turn girls on? Now. I'd have said a suit, but they're well down the list. In a survey in one of the girls’ mags EIGHT out of TEN girls said they find JEANS the sexiest thing a man can wear. They can be as old as you want but they should always be clean. Plus, make sure they are as tight as possible round the waist and fit well round the backside - because this is the ONLY part of a man's body that girls can't resist! T-shirts and sweatshirts are usually better than open-necked shirts. If you’ve got a decent body then show her it with a T-shirt that's a size too small. If you haven't bulk up with a baggy one. Bomber jackets are better than suit jackets or anoraks - these give you the tight waist-big chest look which most girls admire. Dirty or worn shoes are a big turn-off apparently, and clean black or brown shoes or boots are much better than trainers which never look clean and can easily smell. Hair Etc. When it comes to hair - skin head - shoulder length - whatever style you like is fine. But it must be a proper style that is regularly cut or styled and CLEAN . Clean shaven is in . That survey said that most girls think beards are a turn-off. Unshaven stubble might go down well with her the next morning, but the night before it just makes you look dirty . Girls worry about their skin like crazy and she'll run a mile before getting close to a spotty face! If you’ve got any spots get rid of them with one of those anti-bacterial face washes. What Do You Smell Like ? Girls have got ultra-sensitive noses and so it's vital to smell right if you want success. Never, go out smelling the slightest bit sweaty because she'll come nowhere near you. This means a bath or shower before every date - especially if your work makes you smell of anything strong. Use unperfumed soaps and deodorants so you can smell clean without smelling like a flower shop. And girls do go for a good aftershave - that means the expensive stuff! You'd be amazed how many girls can tell the different brands. But do use small amounts so you don't cover up your natural smell - men give off a natural musk smell which girls are attracted to . If you smoke this will reduce your chances with non-smoking girls. Plus, I don't know any girls who like stale-beer-flavoured breath - so a mouthwash or spray is a good idea. Clean hands and properly cut nails are another thing girls notice . What She REALLY Goes For It's not what you think. Again, those magazine surveys have shown time and time again that most girls judge a man’s attractiveness by his - EYES!! So, it always pays to make sure your eyes are bright. If you're tired use eye drops to avoid that red-eye look. If you wear glasses then make sure they suit you, or consider contact lenses. Plus, wearing sunglasses may look cool but it's a sure and certain way to AVOID getting noticed by girls. As I said before, overall build is much less important to most girls than your personality - Though it's a lie to say that a decent body won't attract their glances. In the same survey the things girls found sexiest, after EYES, were a firm BOTTOM, a decent sized CHEST and finally - a suntan. Most girls weren't turned on by body-builder types and not one said they found the contents of a man's boxer shorts attracted them. What You Probably Didn't Know About Her Most girls have got an amazing inferiority complex about THEIR own appearance. They always worry that they are too fat/thin, their hair is a mess, skirt is half an inch too long or short etc. Yes this even applies to the most stunning ones! So, it always pays to make the best of your appearance and never think she's too good for you. Because then, in most cases, with all the faults she THINKS she has it will usually be HER that feels she isn't good enough for YOU! THE OPEN-UP LEVEL The Top Six Places to Pick Up Girls The biggest mistake most men make here is to only try and pick up girls in a classic pick-up situation - such as a pub or a nightclub. When you think about it these are some of the HARDEST places to score - because they are packed with men trying to do the same and there are ALWAYS more men than girls. The EASIEST places to score are those daily life situations, well away from the pressure of the dance floor. Every time you go out of the house is an opportunity to score . Remember this simple rule - THE MORE OFTEN A GIRL MEETS YOU IN A DAILY LIFE SITUATION THE MORE LIKELY SHE IS TO DATE YOU. One-off pick ups with complete strangers often lead to no more than one night stands which, at the end of the day, will not be enough to keep you satisfied. How to Pick Up at Work The work situation is a very good place to pick up - assuming you work with sufficient numbers of attractive girls . If you haven't already make sure you do the rounds of all the suitable girls at work. Usually, the easiest ways for getting to know a girl you fancy are to show an interest in what she does, or ask her for help with your work. If you can't - ask her to do you some kind of FAVOUR - such as that bit of photocopying or picking you up some sandwiches when she goes to the shop. Another good idea is to go for a PART TIME JOB. Here you'll meet girls as CUSTOMERS not colleagues. A lot of them find that bit of power over you very attractive! . Good jobs to take are in pubs, clubs, shops and petrol stations. Check the place out before you apply to make sure it attracts sufficient talent. How to Pick Up in Pubs and Clubs Pubs and night-clubs are the classic pick-up places but. as I’ve said. not always the best. The secret of being successful is not WHAT you say. but WHERE YOU GO. If you're young, try somewhere that attracts mainly older men and you'll be hot property with the girls there. If you’re older try somewhere that attracts younger girls, who go for maturity. If you're working, try pubs and clubs in student areas. If you're a student, try the business places. Girls crave excitement and a change of routine and are drawn to any new men who don't make up part of their usual scene. How to Pick Up On Holiday MORE IN http://forum.coolnepal.com/index.php?showtopic=1001