hyaa...we're expecting too much!! No Restrictions is the best way to go. sajha's like a chautari- so if someone comes and shits in the chautari, nagarpalika can stick a notice and make it a rule- do not shit here, you'll be fined. but if a group of people sitting in the chautari start swearing, another group cannot take a flag and start demonstrating. its like freedom of speech, but if people are civil enough- they will maintain that civility, and not swear. if they're not civil, you'll either have to ignore them, listen to them quietely, remind them nicely, or swear back at them. but you don't go put pressure on nagarpalika to make sure people who come to the chautari and sit don't swear. thats asking for too much. what i'm saying is- Sajha has been sabaiko sajha- if there are too many restrictions and recommendations to monitor this and that, or to make this site like this or like that, set it as an example bla bla- its not sajha anymore. then there'll be dictatorship. i think sajha is, to a great extent doing some monitoring only to make sure it doesn't take the shape of a category- like a porn site, or a political site etc. other than that, say whatever you feel like, spill your frustrations, share your happiness, get punked, do whatever..its sabaiko sajha. Amen!