I was looking at a thread here in Sajha, this morning. “SAVE SAJHA CHAT” or something like that. I could not find that thread. Admin deleted it. There was some replies from Sagarnep, Thees_Keta and more from the so called anti Sajha gang. Why am I starting this thread???? Let explain that, I don’t have any personal concerns with both chat rooms; I have friends in both places. I am random visitor, visit different chat room once in a while. There are some issues I wanted to address. 1) Sajha is a platform for all Nepalese to come together, and is truly carries common spirit. It has so far been providing everyone with an opportunity to come together and share their thoughts and views. That was exactly how I felt before admin deleted the entire thread. That thread would have been a very useful vehicle to wipe the rumors. It would have been a useful thread to link Nepalese community together once again. Now, I kinda have a feeling that Sajha admin don’t want this rumor to settle down. 2) I myself haven’t been posting for a while. I miss lotta good writers here in Sajha. There was lot of good articles in Sajha, which has been turned only into fun forum. I don’t have any complain about fun forum, but my concern is about people who knew what they were writing. Sajha admin removed the politics out of their main stream, I already opposed that long time ago and I think others opposed too. Where is the democracy in Sajha? Sajha literally meaning common sharing, there is no sharing in here. It’s ruled by one person. There should be a proper system of making decision. Every one cannot be involved in that process but lot of people should be involved representing majority of Nepalese community. 3) I am surprised with one of the threads being around for a while, and had nothing more than nude pictures. I was not aware Sajha turned in soft porn site, talking always about sex and nudity and posting nude pictures. I don’t want to pull that thread again, but many people know about that thread. I am more surprised that administrators did not remove porn thread. Instead they removed the thread intended to remove the rumors of chat war. Isn’t it interesting? I am completely shocked to c the transformation of Sajha and its admin taking everything into personal level. 4) Just as a reminder: www.staticnepal.com and www.yetikuti.org are complete different entities; there is no co-relation between them. They share a common chat room along with other websites like www.mydharan.com www.coolnepal.com and www.khattam.com. I also visit their chat room, the same way I visit Sajha chat. I don’t have no issues with people chatting in both places. The worst part is the friends who used to be in one place are scattered now. The best part is, I am welcomed in both the places. Its my personal choice to go to any chat room I want to go. No one ever has forced me to do so. But the behavior of Sajha admin really made me feel bad about Sajha now. I believe lot of people even didn’t know about that thread, while some people did. I won’t be surprised not even if my thread is deleted by the administrators of Sajha.com. I would rather take is as the effectiveness of my writing. I as a person, am free do join any website and chat room I want to. The worse any one can do is banning me from chat and website both. You are more than welcome to do so, if u desire to do so. I made my point and I believe there are lot of people here who think the way I think. harkeDai :-)