Cerine ji, Yes, I can see a good point of your question. Well, life is all about circumstances... you could be fighting in Iraq if you were born around with Extremists, you could be playing as a Hero in Hindi Cinemas if you were born Amitabh's Family .. or You could be in Militia if you were in Rukum Rolpa ... it's all about situations ... Now where you're , you are in a great place, see the bright side of your life Cerine. AN