just like me brother said today... what you need to achieve is purity which can only be achieved once u achieve all your desires... i say.. desires are there but you cannot ignore it. once you ignore you can never be happy, because it will just become continuous... just like krishna says in gita.. (okay... krishna is only symbolic to me... he is a protagonist of an epic)... you do what you have to do, but never expect the fruits of your action... because then you'll be disappointed whatever the results are... you jsust do what you have to do, and only imagine what you get, but just accept what you get.. but never desire what you want to get.. i have a desire that i want to retire by 40 and live in Mustang with my parents, because i am only a human being. if i did not have that desire, i would become buddha. i am not buddha, and i would never be one. i don't intend to be one... because i am full of desires.. and i like it just like that.. and give myself another good 12 years, before i enter into the abode of peace.