Even if i do not agree with some of the views posted in this thread. I totally agree with what kshitij1 has said. GOD DAMN i hate that word "poka". To all those people that LOVE saying POKA in the most derogatory way i suggest you go and look at what your mother fed you when you were born... or better yet wouldnt it feel awesome for you if your neighbor kept on refering to your wife or gf as POKA. How the hell would you feel if he keeps gawking at her breasts??? Not to stray from the point, yes people that you meet in sajha might be random and you might never meet them. But it doesnt mean that you should exploit the freedom that sajha.com provides you and destroy the sanctity of this site. This site's the closest thing i have to home and keeps me in touch with my nepali side. So dont push me away from it and from home just because of the shit faced masaginistic pigs you are. Shame that you represent my country. SO DONT MESS IT UP FOR EVERY ONE. Be productive. Go read a book...