you know, we Nepali have no sense of humor.. that is, we can not laugh at our own absurdities, weakness, and failings, especially if it comes from a third party. In a sense. we are not different from the Muslims who are running amok to avenge those infidels who published a cartoon. We did the same thing in Nepal. Remember Rhitik Roshan Kanda? so what we need to do is to develop a sense of self effasiveness. Why not start insulting each other with good humor without being nasty and using profanity? Indians are very good at this. To berate a person an expression like, Are o, Jhaado ke tinke!" [kucho bata chhuteko euta tyaandro], "are wo akal ke tedhe!" This adds spice to conversation and since we do not know each other, it can not be personal..We just have to make sure that ther is no profanity. How about spicing our chat? It adds humor... What???????