"To be fair purush, your whole idea of marrying is like recruitng an employee in ur company...get rid of it ...go n find somebody who matches with you and ur feelings..I am sure u will have somebody just right for you and vice versa." How would you marry if you were not in love, Sense? I liked your idea, that is exactly what I wanted to do. How would you know some had the same feelings? I believe you know our arranged marriage system very well. I have couple of friends who didn't even see ladies before they got married. They flew from America and got married with the ladies their families found for them. They all relied on resume bro. All they had seen were the resume and some scanned pictures. This is what is happening bro.