nice to see guys so serious about having a relationship...u can write an epic on this but there's no conclusion as long as the system of 'arranged marriage' is there . Before marriage, atleast guys, know the person who u r marrying to..its a magic 'click' that you have to follow..people can be good frens but they may not click in a relationship. Its stupid to have a relationship by looking at sombody's 'CV' ....u r not hiring a staff man, u r making a decision of ur life damnit. To be fair purush, your whole idea of marrying is like recruitng an employee in ur company...get rid of it ...go n find somebody who matches with you and ur feelings..I am sure u will have somebody just right for you and vice versa. Good luck...