purush, just be a purush and leave that crap behind... this is not the end... if she has already fallen in love with you then, she will either leave you or wait for you for your happiness. The problem here is not her but you. What is it you want? Do you want to be with her or not. If not, then here is the email: Dear ???, i think we should both think as two adults and come to a conclusion that we cannot be together in this life. If we are meant to be, then we will be in the future but not now. -purush If yes, then you know what to tell her... pls wait, i love you and those stuff that no body needs to tell you... i hope this helps. Remember, it is about you and only you. Her.. she will figure out what to do.. you don't have to worry about her, unless you are in love. if you are in love then, just get married .. don't wait.. go to nepal and bring her here or stay there with her. Why is it so difficult anyways?