purush jyu, i think i know what u mean (O: ... i have been rejected so many times that i have been kind of immune to everything but i still believe that it would work better if one analyses what the other person has and good outweighs bad. [ of course easier said than done ] any whooo.. my thought and way does not necessarily fit you. [ it differs win individual ] hoina ta ??? ==================================================== as always what do i know(O: