Purush, if you look for too much, the chances are you would find none. I have been discarded many many times;), but the good part about me is, they have always come back to carry me home. :) Sometimes we look for too many things in a wo/man, and often tend to forget that a wo/man can only have so many virtues. The point is, what does not a man or a women do not want? We want everything. As cheesy as it might sound, bass pyar ho na chaiye ;). Which in your case, is not there as of now. But remember, love is an weird emotion. Takes you by surprise and makes you do things you would otherwise would not imagine in your wildest imagination. Okay, okay, enough of this bull shit. Just say sorry, take 5 shot, and sleep. Tomorrow is another day ;) IndisGuise:)