Actually I had to reply that e-mail. I replied it was not because she challenged my manship but because she was hurt and was thinking I was a bad guy, and had a bad intention. I had a full of respect for any lady especially to those with whom there had been a "kurakani." Then I had to clarify my intentions. I replied that she was given a wrong information about me by someone. I offered my apolozies for whatever she had to go with, wished her a better candidate, and discussedd about the beauty of Nepali society in which ladies are provided comforts by interpreting guy's intention as wrong/evil. However, at last I realized that I was looking for someone who had dashing vigor like that irrespective of what she looked like.