Rum Bro Reading at your story it seems as if you are in some dilemma. You are not sure how much you trust the one you love. There is always a line you have to draw in how you are and what you are with your lover. Obliviously you want to be secure of your love and you have jealousy in such matter but, “Jealousy is a sign of love” if you know where to draw that line. If you are jealous to an extent that’s the love for him or her but much of jealousy means you are insecure and you don’t trust the one you love. Well next time you talk to her probably its good not to rise the same question again to her asking if you still love that guy or do you still keep in touch with him? But I would say if you really love that girl and want her to be yours, ask her how true can she be to you? Say her “ I will trust you by every means and I do trust you for everything” and make her realise that you love her to that extent where she can’t even imagine your love. And tell her because of all the love you have for her and trust towards her will hurt you very much if she breaks your trust by any means. Make her feel that she has been a dream of your life for years now and promise her that you will always remain true and expect her to be true to you as well. Good Luck with your life bro and hope this relation you want to maintain works for both of you but in life if someone cant be true and does deceive you and do break your trust think that THEY WERE NEVER MEANT FOR YOU.. LIFE HAS TO GO ON…