Typical. Self satisfaction and protecting their so called fragile heart is most important to the majority of the girls in this living world. Its a hard work. At the same time Im not saying all boys are saints,they have their own style in doing these things. But in love i think one shouldnt be naive. I think building up a relationship doesnt involve 'yes' and 'no' answer to the question/proposal, it involves a spark(includes attraction) and if not that, time to have that spark. I agree physical attraction is less significant but still what one likes in other is important. Im saying all this, not thinking i am Mr.Right but of my experience so experince may vary.