":So, guys try to focus on her pleasure than yours.. because this will prolong your ability to give her orgasm, because yours is easy, hers is hard. Women, just enjoy the pleasure than thinking too much." Sorry brother, not trying to prove you wrong, but kamasutra was written hundreds of yeards ago.. when they were living in the caves.. time has changed.. girls drill their honey pot lately, sex - toy stores everywhere and every club has 10 -15 good black men standing on the side of the dance floor starting at some fine meat , or griding it down...i think the most important thing is to find your compatable person.. someone who is shy and not chewed and left...she will have multiple orgasm .. while those girls who has used drill machine and all kinda tools from all kinds of men, she will not get satisified no matter what you do.. my suggestion to brothers, don't think you have to please her.. it will give you performance anxiety and you might lose the erection.. focus on the time.. think how much you are enjoying her and how much fun you're having.. you will have fun and last longer. That way you will have fun too.. if you come soon or somethign goes wrong , she will still be satisified to satisfy you.. if she's a real women... watch out for the girls who use drill machines and have more than 2 or 3 boyfriends...