dyamn, i agree with you...ya i am talking about F1..i dont' know about others...i am not working hard for me but for my bf(f1). he used to work a lot...but now i am working for him..coz' the most he can get is $8...and i don't want him to work in indian or in gas-station......coz' we all know it's very risky to work in gas-station...you never know when ..i love him a lot...more than myself...and his fee is just too high...you guys won't believe..that's why we didn't celebrate his birthday but i gave him a check to pay his college fee....that's the only way i can help...i mean for my bf there is me...but for other guys...i feel so sorry..but ya dont' give up ....that's why i always tell my frens and bros and sis..to complete undergrad and come for masters....like indians...