IndisGuise, What a brilliant suggestion you gave to uniquepali. Bravo to you intelligence. I cannot think of any other way uniquepali can find his friend. I was thinking may be he could invite all the Ghales in NY to a party or something then again there is no guarantee that all the Ghales in NY will get his invitation. Like you mentioned above, even if someone found the girl why should he/she reveal the girls identity to Uniquepali without knowing his motive and his legitimacy.