ok, i know that this question was directed at the fairer sex, but in light of hte fact that i have to leave in 5 mins and wont come back to this site soon, i am going to put together a list of items. its' jsut common sense really.... (i am assuming that the guy is normal) must-haves: intelligent funny good looking caring/compassionate understanding ambitious well-educated rich confident independent/strong good upbringing (breeding i guess) bells and whistles: can cook can write poems and sing love ballads praising you can go to the ends of the earth for you loves your mom and dad and everyone in your extended family unconditionally makes your friends green with envy that you managed to bag such a catch. devotes 100% of his free time to you and your whims. actually the assumption i made earlier about the guy being normal is invalid....