bijays,the reason goys find it hard to find girls is plain.guys want girls who have boobs like mariah carey's,body like J.Lo's lips like Angelina's, so how is it possible? girls on the contrary develop feelings for her guy frens if they care for her or is there for her in need.they won't give a damn to theirappearance. so next time there's someone out there reaching out for you, try to take a peek into her heart rather than observe her from a distance.