i don't want to hate anyone no matter what... i keep reminding myself : karma yoga purifies the heart by teaching us to act selflessly, without thought of gain or reward. by detaching yourself from the fruits of your actions and offering them up to the spirit, you learn to sublimate the ego. what happened yesterday happened. what will happen tomorrow will happen. what is happening now is happening. cannot worry about yesterday because it has already happneed. cannot worry about tomorrow because it has never happened. so, just enjoy the moment right now.