This is the strangest thread. First the title is weird. Why is the poster even interested in knowing whether I bit my wife's lips or not? What does that have to do with Arnie?? Was he really bitten by the skinny girl? Second, People aren't even talking about the topic. Kudos to Porcelina who totally changed this subject to whole new thread. I indeed agree with Snurp how Gandhi's quote fit here. Punishing him doesn't solve the problem, but that doesn' t mean you DON'T punish him does it?? Can I come and destroy your car and beg for mercy telling you that I just turned saint? Without fear of repurcussions, human beings are mere wild animal. Gandhi's words fit in REVENGE scenario, not in Punishment. There is a difference.