Thanks for your polite and logical confrontation....(मलाइ सित्तल भाको छैन दादा) I do agree that most of our folks are like "EKKA LAGAYEKO GODHA" but I disagree on your suggestion to stretch my horizon. I am in US since list 5 years and have been introduced to many nepalis. These are my experience with nepali folks.... 1) I have seen many Neaplese friends re enrolling in college for number of times just to maintain their status. most of them have already done their masters. 2) I have not seen any Nepali DV Holder working in any good company. The max I have seen is manager of Indian restaurant. If you know any DV holders who have a good job and living then I would say that is an exception. If you came on DV and have good job then you are an exception :) at last, I hope you know one commercial in nepali regarding Family planning.... भाग्‍य तेस्‍तो हैन humdrum करम तेस्‍तो भन